Tuesday, March 5, 2019

Don't Overthink




Thinking is great.


I love thinking, I bet teddy bears are so pissed that they cant think like us.Except Ted, obviously, speaking of which , Ted is great example of not overthinking since its a movie about a talking bear who gets married to a human woman.#LoveWins. Unfortunately, though , we don't always follow our gut. sometimes when we are passionate about something or in some kind of bind, we tend to think a lot about the "what, where, when, how and why" of the situation, to the point that it becomes unproductive.It happens to the best of us.Overthinking is natural enemy of efficiency because it prevents us from  getting things done.A Bawse should know when to take the time to think something through and when to simply make quick decision.

Going in circles will never get you anywhere (unless you are the Earth, in which case you are all right). For examples, your boyfriend tells you he wants to talk, Before you call him, you spend forty minute thinking about how  the conversation will play out. What if he cheated on me?what if i accidentally cheated on him and i didn't realize it? May be  I am on TMZ! Or what if he has cancer ?OMG! He is actually robot. I knew it.I'm dating the robot from the big Hero 6! None of this thought are helpful.What you need to simply pick up the phone and call your boyfriend. And When you do, you may feel silly and realize how much time wasted worrying when he asks,"Can you drive tonight?"


Human have tendency to over complicate  simple things because we overthink them.But if you take a step back and remember  your priorities, it becomes easier to make a decision.When you are in these situations, I encourage you to ask yourself basic questions while keeping priorities in your mind.if you care about money , ask yourself "Does this job pay well ?" If you care about health, ask yourself, "Does this job make me happy ?" Ask the question that align your priorities and ignore all other noise.

PS: This is great advice from the book( How to be Bawse) by one and only LILLY SINGH






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